Teenagers – and Nero Fiddling
Life is a little bit different here from the life of teenagers in NZ. Recimo, families have a big lunch (rucak – with a ‘ch’), maybe a sleep and then something light in the evening, with the family heading out to walk on the riva (promenade) with a coffee or an icecream. Mediterranean style. It’s very safe (I feel completely safe walking around at midnight through the dark little streets) so kids are free range. There are some rules though. Up to the age of 16, you are not allowed out after midnight. My friend’s daughter is 12 and she was picked up by the police the other night at 11.07. The ramifications are a conversation with the parents and a counsellor. The conversation went along the lines of ‘do you understand that there are rules, and if you break the rules, then we think that you have a mother/father who isn’t doing their job properly. If this happens again, we will need to get a social worker to work with your family to make sure that everything is ok..”. ...